The Game of Love

A Journey to Self-Love and Wellness

Your Life with Nettie Jones - Vol. 2, No. 2 — February 2026

Understanding the unspoken rules we often play by. February isn’t just about whom you choose to love; it’s also about how you treat yourself along the way.

1. Know the rules you learned early

Many of us are playing a game shaped by childhood, culture, or past relationships. Awareness is the first step to changing the game.

2. Stop confusing intensity with intimacy

High highs and low lows can feel exciting, but consistency, safety, and respect are the true markers of emotional connection.

3. Watch patterns, not promises

Words can be compelling; behavior tells the truth. Pay attention to what is repeated, not what is said in emotional moments.

4. Choose clarity over chemistry

Chemistry may spark attraction, but clarity sustains a relationship. Ask questions, name needs, and avoid the guessing games.

Remember:

Your game of love is guided by how you choose to love yourself. Your rules apply; just be mindful that not everyone is qualified to play.